tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post6716466240245294133..comments2023-11-05T01:32:28.975-06:00Comments on Observations from an Ozark Life: Killing SantaWendyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03115002505324651653noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-51423823819231704852008-12-07T18:29:00.000-06:002008-12-07T18:29:00.000-06:00OK. Here's my confession: I cried myself to slee...OK. Here's my confession: I cried myself to sleep the night I found out Santa wasn't real. But I wasn't angry at my parents. I was mourning the loss of somebody I loved. It's a gentle easing in to adulthood if I do say so...<BR/>AND I am not scarred at all by having believed in Santa!!! Avery will be getting the full Santa experience for as long as I can make it work!<BR/>BTW, my mom (Tatiana; see post below) taught me not to be a Santa whistle blower as well--and I never did tell another kid. To this day, I won't out Santa to my students (and I teach junior high!).Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11035514659484888751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-30260812159637901532008-12-07T07:28:00.000-06:002008-12-07T07:28:00.000-06:00Tati, I didn't think of the historical aspect. (I...Tati, I didn't think of the historical aspect. (I will blame Rob as he is the Santa Expert.) By the way, yesterday as I was walking out to the door to do the shopping Rob said, "Don't get him any clothes... my mom did that to me and I didn't like it!" Yeah, who would?<BR/><BR/>Dwacon, thanks for visiting. My mom said something similar. She said when she finally found out she felt like she couldn't trust her mom anymore because she's "lied".<BR/><BR/>I guess everyone has a different reaction.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03115002505324651653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-83947889073908978852008-12-07T01:39:00.000-06:002008-12-07T01:39:00.000-06:00I felt angry that my parents lied to me all those ...I felt angry that my parents lied to me all those years.Dwaconhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07544514023626682777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-10147972474948295642008-12-06T20:19:00.000-06:002008-12-06T20:19:00.000-06:00But Santa IS real ... or was at one time. He was ...But Santa IS real ... or was at one time. He was a child named Nicholas, born to wealthy parents in the third century. His parents died when he was a child and he was raised in a monastery. Following his Christian beliefs, he used his inheritance to give to the poor. He later became a Bishop, and then a Saint after his death. Whether you are a Christian or not, the story of Santa Claus perpetuates the lesson that good comes from good - and it doesn't hurt for children to believe that this "magical" man selflessly gives to children all over the world. Childhood is short enough ... why not let them enjoy the fantasy? Tell Julius that although Santa is not real in the physical sense, he was once, and we celebrate his ideals by remembering him each year. Besides ... once you stop believing in him you get underwear instead of toys.Tatianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18042434498067211236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-28211487242448375672008-12-06T00:51:00.000-06:002008-12-06T00:51:00.000-06:00Hi Relyn. It's nice that you taught Sloane to be ...Hi Relyn. It's nice that you taught Sloane to be so polite. (I really love her name, btw.)<BR/><BR/>Someone was in my office today saying she didn't like the whole Santa thing because it took focus off Jesus.<BR/><BR/>My mother refers to Santa as "that big fat faker". I think your husband and I might be from the same family. :)Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03115002505324651653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-90865341141297180522008-12-06T00:13:00.000-06:002008-12-06T00:13:00.000-06:00My family celebrated Santa growing up. We all pret...My family celebrated Santa growing up. We all pretended he was real, but knew (always as far as I remember) that Santa is real in the same way fairy tales and Peter Pan are real. My husband's family didn't celebrate Christmas. In fact, they believe it is wrong. My husband doesn't agree with his family. Thank God. But, our plan from before we got married was NO SANTA. No lies, no tricks, no Santa at all. Not even on ornaments. We've taught Sloane from the beginning that he isn't real, but that some people believe in him. We taught her that under no circumstances was she allowed to be a party pooper. No blowing the whistle on Santa. Ever. She's fine with it. I miss him a little though.Relyn Lawsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01389583730002062714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-23145002357676758182008-12-05T19:59:00.000-06:002008-12-05T19:59:00.000-06:00Ginny, you don't believe in anything, though. LOL...Ginny, you don't believe in anything, though. LOL. Maybe it's because your parents damaged you and you don't realize it! Well, my kids are doomed to have lots of therapy anyway. I'm sure of it.<BR/><BR/>Well, he pretty much knew which is why he kept bugging me about it. I just felt creepy about faking it. You know how I am!<BR/><BR/>Envie, re: roommates... you and me both, girl!Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03115002505324651653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-55766705413506120272008-12-05T19:49:00.000-06:002008-12-05T19:49:00.000-06:00awwwI was not damaged upon learning there was not ...awww<BR/>I was not damaged upon learning there was not santa . . . nor an easter bunny. It becomes a realization when no one breaks it to you like you guys did! LOL. poor lads.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07728141013075952581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2571590790949407117.post-43812571765528794322008-12-05T19:46:00.000-06:002008-12-05T19:46:00.000-06:00I grew up in a non Santa home. Very strict religio...I grew up in a non Santa home. Very strict religious, but loving. We've done a vague Santa here. Never pushing the full belief but not as gung ho that he's not real as I did.<BR/><BR/>And bwahaha at not being room mates. I don't live well with other people, sad to say.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13534398867537016708noreply@blogger.com